touch a nerve
verbEtymology An allusion to the sharp sensation felt when a dentist or surgeon physically disturbs an exposed nerve.
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Idiomatic To make a remark or perform a deed which produces a strong response, especially an emotional response such as anxiety or annoyance, because it calls to mind something which has been a source of concern or embarrassment.
- Louis B. Seltzer, editor of the Cleveland Press, . . . banged out an editorial that raised uncomfortable questions about the state of the U.S. at a moment of world responsibility. His piece touched a nerve: in the following week, 1,000 people had tried to reach him by phone or written him letters or stopped him on the street to talk about it.1951 August 27, “National Affairs: Right & Wrong”, in TIME, archived from the original on 23 Nov 2010:
- The austerity of my tone seemed to touch a nerve and kindle the fire that always slept in this vermilion-headed menace to the common weal, for she frowned a displeased frown and told me for heaven's sake to stop goggling like a dead halibut.1960, P. G. Wodehouse, chapter 4, in Jeeves in the Offing:
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- The president's supporters . . . are trying to exert greater control over universities, touching a nerve among an increasingly defiant student movement.2007 November 8, Simon Romero, “Gunmen attack opponents of Chávez's bid to extend power”, in The New York Times, archived from the original on 25 Jan 2023, retrieved 30 Aug 2009:
- Antonyms
- strike a chord
- Related terms
- get on someone's nerves, rub someone the wrong way