blesser
nounEtymology From bless + -er.
1
One who blesses; one who bestows or invokes a blessing.
2
South Africa, Slang A rich man who offers support (typically financial and material) to a younger female companion in exchange for sex, friendship, etc.
- Other participants suggested that girls with blessers were forward or naughty girls, thus exonerating the actual blessers from blame and responsibility.2018, Claudia Mitchell, Relebohile Moletsane, Disrupting Shameful Legacies, page 94: