passee
nounEtymology From pass + -ee.
1
One who is passed.
- To keep the people who are doing the passing sensitive to the pesron being passed […], you might want to ask them to hum or chant or whisper sweet nothings. The passee, aside from worrying about being dropped, might also spend a lot of her time worrying, more rightfully, about being touched, as they say, “inappropriately.”2013, Bernard De Koven, A Playful Path, page 121: