go through the mill
verb1
Idiomatic To experience the suffering or discipline necessary to bring one to a certain degree of knowledge or skill, or to a certain mental state.
verb — 2 senses
Idiomatic To experience the suffering or discipline necessary to bring one to a certain degree of knowledge or skill, or to a certain mental state.
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