domme
nounUK /dɒm/ · US /dɑm/
Etymology Alteration of dom with the pseudo-French feminine inflection.
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A female dominant in a sadomasochistic relationship.
- No amount of fetish wear or powerful looking garments can make a domme out of a woman who hasn't worked on her power and grace within.2005, Midori, Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink, Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, published 2013, →ISBN, page 95:
- Something dommes know is that fear can be controlled — and even used to your advantage.2006, Emily Dubberley, Whip Your Life into Shape, Kansas City, Missouri: Andrews McMeel Publishing, →ISBN, page 94:
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- Leather and rubber fetish has always been popular but there’s a massive need for dommes who specialise in foot and shoe worship; there are just not enough of us to go around.2011, Rebecca, “Rebecca”, in Julian Davies, Hookers: Candid Confessions of Real Call Girls, Milo Books, page 179:
- Derived terms
- findomme, hyperdomme, hypnodomme, lezdomme