aromantic meaning: definition, etymology and quotations

aromantic

adj

/ˌeɪ.ɹəʊˈmæn.tɪk/ · /ˌæ.ɹəʊˈmæn.tɪk/

Etymology (2005) From a- + romantic. Compare asexual. First coined in 2005 in Asexual Visibility and Education Network forums.

That feels little or no romantic attraction to others and/or romantic desire.

Although there are aromantic asexuals who do not experience the instinctual emotional need to be in a romantic relationship, many asexuals seek monogamous partners and value intimate connections just like sexual people.2011 November 28, Soojin Chang, “Sex is the biggest nothing”, in The Daily Californian:
However, if she [Emily Brontë] was asexual, she likely was not aromantic (see chapter 2 for distinction between sex and romance), or at least she had a high-level understanding of romance, as she wrote one of the most intensely romantic novels of her time, Wuthering Heights.2012, Anthony F. Bogaert, Understanding Asexuality, Rowman & Littlefield, published 2012, →ISBN:

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No, just because I’m aromantic does not automatically mean I am also asexual (I happen to really like sex).2012 November, anonymous author, “Pandora's box: The stigmas surrounding aromanticism”, in The Scripps Voice, volume 16, number 4,1, Scripps College, page 5:

noun

Etymology (2005) From a- + romantic. Compare asexual. First coined in 2005 in Asexual Visibility and Education Network forums.

One who does not experience romantic attraction to others.

Ours is a generation of aromantics, jaded about matters of the heart — often before gaining firsthand experience.1986, Wanda Urbanska, The Singular Generation, Doubleday & Company, published 1986, →ISBN, page 86:
Anna is an asexual, aromantic. Before discovering those terms, she assumed herself to merely be unusually disinterested in sex or relationships.2012, Marina Hale, "The Drop-Down Menu Identity Crisis", Glass Buffalo (University of Alberta), Spring 2012, page 51

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'I let it slip one time at work that I’m an asexual aromantic [an asexual who is also not interested in making romantic attachments], and they think it’s absolutely hysterical,’ says Jean Wilson, a sales assistant and 63-year-old grandmother from Banbury. 'One of the women I work with said, “I don’t think you’ve met the right man yet.” I said: “Trish, I’m 63. If I haven’t met him by now I don’t think I’m going to.”’2012 November 12, Olivia Gordon, “'The moment I realised I was asexual'”, in The Telegraph:

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